Hi - I work in the media industry in project management and live in the big smoke. I'm pretty laid back, fun to be around, enjoy lots of friends, love socialising and the odd boozy night out with my lovely boyfriend. We’re pretty close to moving in together (a matter of logistics) and so all is going well. I’m 37 and have made it clear that if I am to move in, it’s with a view to planning for a future together. I’ve been very fair by saying it has to be both of us who want this etc and for him not to feel under pressure. He says I’m the one etc so all is good. I’ve joined this site because I feel that if I talk to my friends I get a biased opinion which is sort of nice but not really helpful!
A: I really sympathize with you. I have never come across this one in all my 37 years of family and friendships and at first. My first reaction was to think how selfish he was being and that really, he doesn't want to be with you but loves you so didn't want to hurt you. I then read the guys... more