Pain decides the things that we enjoy most, we always look for someone or something to push our threshold. Which thing is going to set us over the edge. No matter the situation, we are guided to push against the boundaries that are given. Relationships, driving, eating, everything. we seek that thing that is going to make us hurt for it again. We look for that certain flavor, we drive for the certain speed, we run to see when we'll collapse, We seek to find the most intellectually challenging thing to over come, we eat to see what taste we will crave next. What in our minds allows us to think this? We seek that person who challenges our mind, yet comforts our soul, seems to be a Catch-22 in that respect. I wonder what in a person drives them to be so threatened by another but still look for a goodness from them.

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