A: Mutual love is the highest degree of mental intimacy. Sex is the physical intimacy. You can have one without having the other (i.e. the love you have for your family, and the times when sex is just sex).I believe, that when you're in a relationship, you would like to be as close to your significant... more
A: Why would you tell him unless you want him back? Unless you're very clear that you mean it in a friendly manner, I don't think you should tell him, as it might confuse him more than anything else.
A: Wow, that was a long read.First off, don't spend a lot of money on a girl without her spending any on you. There has to be a balance. Preferably 50/50, not bigger than let's say 70/30. At least not in the beginning. After a while, it doesn't matter that much anymore as things usually balance... more
A: He might want you to look at him as someone who's interested in you for "all the right reasons", meaning that he's not only seeing you for the sex. So he might want to come off as a good guy.Another alternative is that he's inexperienced and afraid that he will not be able to please you sexually (if... more
A: First of all, how exactly are you trying to get something going?It sounds as if you're in the friend zone. See if she wants to hang out, and if she does, then take it from there.The sentence "We both liked each other but we never really went nowhere" tells me that you were both interested, but none... more