A: I know how you feel, because I've been there. It's easy to hear "it has nothing to do with you" and yet still feel cheated on- because it really does feel that way. If it is indeed an addiction, addictions are tough- for the addicted and those who love him.Anyway, request honesty and tell him that'... more
A: You are very certainly NOT messed up. A popular myth is that sex is always fun/exciting/sensational. It's not. It may be fun for him; very little skill or experience is needed to make a male come to orgasm. It usually requires a bit more skill and practice to make us ladies come to orgasm. This is... more
A: It doesn't have to hurt, but if he's on the larger size it may be uncomfortable if you're rushing it. My husband is on the larger size, but when we first had sex (we were both virgins) it hurt very little because we had lots of foreplay. The key is to take it slowly, be very patient (and tell him... more
A: Well, this is coming from a female perspective, but I don't think that guys really care what it looks like. It's really more about what you do with it and how the rest of your body reacts.