A: Lol! This is so funny, because you sound like my little sister. Of course, my little sister is now 23. But she was also 19 and a virgin and just wanted to "get it over with". What can I tell you about her experience (mine is so different because I lost my virginity at 14).? Well, she was dating a... more
A: Well, your problem is not that you're a commitment phobic. If that was true. You'd want your independence and strive for that. Not be wanting him to spend more time with you. Second, you sound crazy! I understand wanting to spend your time with someone 24/7. But honestly, healthy relationships don't... more
A: Well, I am confused here. Does he ALWAYS go to the bar or is this a one time event? Do you ALWAYS go to the bar- and when you do go is it always alone or with your girl friends?Because if you're the only one going out all the time and it's without him, then it's a respect issue. Do you respect him... more
A: For one...thank god you're having safe sex....For Two....you shouldn't be having phone sex in the first place if you're under 18! Now I understand why you wrote this. If you've never been sexual with someone, never watched porn, and never fantasized about sexual/kinky things...you're just outta the... more
A: I don't think he's "using you" unless the two of you are sleeping together. And I don't think he's trying to build something special either. I think he said what he wanted.....to be just friends... Hey, you know a book that would be great for you? HE"S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU....I forget the author's... more
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be something like and amusement park. Where we can have fun and get to know each other. I would wear something casual but flirty. I would hope the date would end with a kiss and being asked out again.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know whatever he asked me. I would tell him about my interests and personality and what I'm looking for in a relationship.