A: Well if you are worried about the gag reflex, that is what they make the numbing candy for. You can get it a sex shops and places like that. I have the same problem, and this candy works for me, all you do is suck it for a few minutes and it makes your throat more relaxed, hope this helped :)
A: From the outside looking in, it looks like you and your friend need some space. I know from experience, Sometimes you just need to take a break. Still act like you care, but if she cares just as much as you do about your friendship, then it will all work out in the end, hope this helped you out a... more