A: It sounds to me that your girlfriend has some very serious control issues. If you let her get control over this, she will gain more control. If you don't feel that your friends, that are girls, want something then they probably don't. The caveat to all of this is that your friend who only talks... more
A: What are you doing with a girl sleeping on you without either of you liking each other? Of course she likes you otherwise she wouldn't be spending that much time with you. Make a move so you don't just have memories of her sleeping on your shoulders.
A: It was hard for him to leave. He was hiding his hurt by making a joke about not being affectionate. Time will heal your hurt. He needs to grow as a person and he (and you) will appreciate you letting him.