A: The double standard exists because men want to keep reins on women. They cannot stand the idea of their girlfriends having had more partners than they've had. Just like they have to make more money and have more prestige. It's a bunch of crap really. But honestly, anybody who sleeps around is a slut... more
A: Haha, I love all the scientific bullshit that has guys trained to think that women all want emotional attachments. I think the person who spouted this probably wanted to believe that women weren't capable of being just as nasty and superficial as men. We do see guys that we want to mess with and... more
A: I think you should just be straight forward with her. Telling her on prom night is romantic, but it would be cool to tell her beforehand too. You didn't mention whether you have feelings for her (more than friends) but I'm assuming that's what you meant. You'll never know unless you ask her... more
A: Are these guys that you all personally know, or did you talk to them online or something? (Because you mentioned one live in another state). Anyways, since you seem to want to stay with your boyfriend, just tell the other guys the truth. It's better than stringing them along.