A: Ok I think it's normal that you don't want to have alot. I mean you can sex out sometime. And like the other girl said.. is your relationship based on sex?
A: I like to see his appearence, see if he keeps himself clean (matching or wearing something decent) and then his face. Make sure he has straight teeth. Hair style? As long as it looks good on you it is another catch point.
A: I wouldn't stay with him for the simple fact that he could be using you. If you don't hear from him in a few days. Question him about his ex and find out what they talk about. that's what I would do.