I am a happy cynic that thinks too much. I would consider myself an libertarian radical feminist . I think the key to understanding problems is through reason and rationality.
A: Yep, course you can - just make sure your heart is in it and you're doing exercise as much as possible (make sure you're not messing up what your trainer is training you by asking them) and don't expect to tone up simply by walking - you really have to put effort in and go the extra mile, push... more
A: Even if you do go out you will get irritated like f*** with the curfew, trust me. The little things that can't change really get frustrating after a while.
A: Personally I'd prefer the first. Someone that interests me is equally as important as someone who looks good. I think many guys out there prefer simple toys, but there are plenty of guys who are looking for something they can interact with properly.