A: YOU pick the vibrator. You know what you want (clitoral stim, g-spot, what kind of penetration if any, etc), and he won't. He'll probably go for the biggest thing there, which is EXACTLY what you don't want.My personal fave is "The Bullet"... it's a small, 1.5" bullet-shaped vibrator, attached to... more
A: Sounds like an unstable situation -- not something you wanna sign up for for eternity. And that's what marriage is. And no, marriage doesn't fix problems.So no, don't accept. Tell him to get his act together, stop being such a tempermental jerk, and then actually evaluate why you even want this guy... more