A: It's pretty simple. We'll be doing something completely ordinary. Maybe he'll say something very sweet and endearing, and we'll be looking into each other's eyes. All of the sudden it hits me. I realize I don't love him as much anymore and I realize it's never going to work out.
A: Of course you are. I've been in this situation before. There are two ways to deal with it. 1. Walk away with your dignity in tact. 2. Keep trying to "talk" to him and change him, only to get hurt over and over again.I've chosen both ways before and let me tell you, the first choice has yielded... more
A: I think that you should talk to him first about your relationship concerns. See what he has to say and has been feeling. It's really up to you. There must be a legit reason why you have stayed together for 2 years. Then again, there's also probably a very valid reason why you've come to this... more
A: The qualities you listed above are to the contrary definitely appealing. Why do you think that? Maybe you just haven't met anyone you are genuinely interested in yet.
As long as you are confident in yourself, everything will work out. I would honestly not worry about it.
A: He didn't have the courage to be "the asshole" and sever all ties with me, no matter how many times that I called, texted, or IMed him, especially when he knew that I had strong feelings for him and would/could never truly be "friends".