A: Well unfortunately all you can do is wait until you can get to the vet. They can do some blood work to test for diseases. I know that's not much help. Sorry. I hope you cat will be fine.
A: He seems intersted in you if he stares at you but keep looking for more clues. And like bigascanb said you have to try and talk to him, he may just be shy.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'm a pretty open minded, active person, so I wouldn't really care where we would go. I would love to go ice skating or something like that would be perfect. We could have fun and still have time to talk. I would wear a pair of jeans and a cute top. If we went ice skating I would wear a light jacket and a scarf. Something cute yet comfortable. It would end with a kiss or a hug.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would hope he would know my sense of humor and how fun I am. He would how athletic I am and my interests.