A: Believe me, I understand. And I know it's hard coming from a stranger. My first serious boyfriend I dated from the ages of 18-24. Almost 6 years. And I thought that he was the man for me. But, he cheated on me, and treated me like dirt. One morning I woke up, and thought 'if he was the one, and he... more
A: People don't change unless they want to. And why would he want to, if you're letting him behave like this? He probably thinks he has it made. It's hard, but the only thing that will help (and I know) is time. He sounds like the exact opposite of boyfriend material. Once you realize that you deserve... more
A: I've been through something like this. It'll be hard to hear, but- when this happened to me, I realized that he kept stringing me along as an option, because he already knew what it was like with me, and it was comfortable. If he really loved you the way you love him, he wouldn't be treating you... more
A: If you have a clear understanding of why the relationship ended, and you decide that no longer being together is for the best, I would go with the 'out of sight, out of mind' advice. No contact, put everything that you have that would remind you of the relationship away, give any of her belongings... more
A: From what I've been told, intimacy, whether a girl wants it to or not, affects a female emotionally. The feelings may have just snuck up on her out of nowhere. Your best bet is to just let her down easy and as soon as possible. Tell her that she's a nice girl, but you're not in a place in your life... more
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