A: I'm okay with kissing with eyes open, but when a guy stares at me during sex, it's weird. I make weird faces during sex, and I don't want him seeing them. But when I'm going down on a guy, I do like him to watch.
A: Well you know, every guy is different, and I've found that guys who have a lot of stamina during sex take longer to orgasm during oral, too. My advice? Start out having sex, and once he's getting along, go down on him. That should give you a better shot.