29 years old and from Queens, New York, United States
I'm the girl that had one disastrous relationship after another. Now that I've found the man that I love and want to spend my life with, I have to figure out how to win him back after completely destroying it.
A: Ok, first off: Who was this girl? Were you interested in her BEFORE and she came around when you got into a relationship?Second: If you truly love your ex, why did you want this other girl? (NOT being mean, trying to establish what SHE had that you felt your ex didn't) And third, WHEN did you want... more
A: YES.they are much harder. Mainly because they take longer. I've had the bad break up, and it HURTS.but the situation I'm in now is KILLING me. I still love him more than anything and he still loves me, but my jealousy and insecurity ruined it. We still work together and he's still really nice to me,... more
A: Because he doesn't believe you will change. That's the same problem I am having with my ex. He believes that a) I won't change and b) even if I do change, it won't be enough to make the relationship work out.You have to prove him wrong. Don't force relationship "talks" on him. Just be his friend for... more
A: Well, first of all. I think the BIG problem is that she says this guy is her best friend of 3 years, yet she's YOUR fiancee and you don't know about him? That's a red flag to me. Second, why didn't she ask YOU to take her to visit her grandmother?In all fairness, I do have guy friends that I love,... more
A: I do know how you feel. I'm in a similar situation. After almost 3 months, I still dream about him and think about him ALL day. The worst part, is that we work together, so I cry at work at he sees it. It's very hard to love someone and want them back, yet the other person doesn't believe it can... more
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