A: She's obviously shy. But, from my experience, and TRUST me, you're not alone. But, in our secret girl language (haha you know what i'm talking about girl) she's interested in having group sex with you. The dildo, the boyfriends, it all adds up. But its hard to ask a friend to have sex with you, so... more
A: Very, very, touchy subject here. Of course, G-D is the ultimate arbiter of happiness (Leviticus 57),so you have to do what will appease G-D. Of course, on one hand, fate has dictated that you share your vows with your friend. On the other hand, if you marry him, you risk the ultimate sin which is... more