A: Because it kills us to think that if you could have her instead of us you would. I don't get ticked off, but I know why we would normally react that way.
A: U are married and want to flirt? flirting is fine, but not having sex with them. although your comments insinuates your joking, you're not really and you need to think about the ramifications it will have when your wife finds out.
A: Apologize. and keep it simple as guys don't want to read a 2 page email. if he was doing drugs though. it was legitimate. there's a big difference if someone was doing drugs or "supposedly doing drugs". rely on facts not what you think might have been true.
A: There is no number. so if you are not feeling bothered by it, don't let it bother you, but don't tell people your personal business and assume they are going to react favorably. you should tell yourself one thing though and that is all activity with those people needs to be safe. you don't want... more