A: I'm curious as to why your boyfriend would tell you things like his parents' nickname for you or that they disliked you from the moment they met you. Surely in whatever conversation these came up it would have been easy for him to omit these details, or say something more tactful such as "they... more
A: I would have no problem with her using my cellphone, seeing who's calling when it rings, even reading out new text messages when I've got my hands full. I would be far more concerned if she started going through my call logs or text messages without a good reason - an occasional idle glance is... more
A: It might mean that he's happy with where your relationship is right now and that he's either unwilling to make a bigger commitment (like the L word) to you or he's scared that doing so could jeopardize what you currently have. Perhaps he's had enough bad experiences that he doesn't believe that a... more
A: Not if he has a shred of decency. If he really cares about you he will wait not try to blackmail you into something you're not ready for. Unfortunately some guys your age are focussed on the sex more than the girl it is with and may try to pull this. Kick his ass to the curb - you deserve far... more
A: I'm not sure that it's necessarily all about the winning, I think it's about the good feelings from having set out to do something well and achieving that. For example, I would get far more enjoyment over a closely fought pool match where I was playing well but lost compared to one where both of us... more