A: Bro Beat FEET! Get the hell out of there. If she wants the time to hang out give it to her but without your support. Get. A. Lawyer. Get a divorce and get your kids. Yea it will be hard but better hard than horrible.
A: You should keep it to yourself. Telling him will only make him not trust you. Then he will question every relationship you have with a guys friend of coworker. Do. Not. Tell. Him. It does not matter if you have been together for 1,000 years he will feel betrayed and he will question the WHOLE... more