A: Firstly, 17 is too young to be engaged. Think about your situation now, and how long this kind of thing could go on after you are married before you get really unhappy. A guy who is going to be your husband hiding things from you is seriously bad news. Marriage is based on trust, understanding and... more
A: Time to move on. You made a silly mistake (you are not alone - trust me) and he has made his mind up. The extent of his reaction suggests that he may have been looking for an excuse to end it and he is hanging everything on this one thing. He also seems quite a bully to make you continually suffer... more
A: It sounds like this is either going to bubble over or fizzle out. In other words you have a chance to try and go for it with Anthony, or he will slowly fade out of your life. Don't be too scared for things to fail, even though you work together, this probably won't be forever and you can both be... more
A: Maybe, but I don't think guys attach such important feelings to these events. There may be certain events that trigger feelings or memories for him, but generally a guy won't have cataloged the sequence of events in his brain. If you find a guy is paying you a lot of attention and is remembering... more
A: He quite possibly does, but you're not considering giving him what he expects are you? Unless he's prepared to put in half the work then you're always going to be in an unequal (and therefore unhappy) relationship.