20 years old and from Irvine, California, United States
Hello everyone, my name is Derek, but I go by many different monickers depending on my location and company, I'm 20 years old and I live in southern california... No one seems to be able to understand me and a lot of people think I'm weird but I just ignore people like that. I can't think of much else to say about myself, but I will say that I like everyone (except people that get on my badside) and I want to know all of you as long as you're cool... well if you have any questions about me... personal or otherwise... all you have to do is ask...
A: It's one of two possible reasons: 1) that's what they're attracted to, like in my case, my ex had dark hair that's long and straight and that's what I'm attracted to, I'm not gonna change it for anyone. Or 2) the guy is trying to make his ex feel terrible and finds the girl with the closest... more
A: She's your typical heartless b!#$% it seems, girls like that view relationships in a cost/benefit sort of way. She basically moved on to someone she thought was "better" and that shows immaturity on her part, I say be the mature one and let the relationship die, there's more fish in the sea!
A: Just stay away from her, she's a cheater and if you do one day get married she'll probably cheat on you for some stupid reason. If she really really loved you she wouldn't be messing around with some guy, she's the typical woman when it comes to not knowing what she really wants!
A: Although you felt he wasn't right for you he might have felt differently, he probably felt you were right for him, I was in a similar but different situation and I couldn't be friends because I still felt that she was the one for me. It also could be that he's still attracted to you and would be... more
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
We'll first we'd meet somewhere close to the beach, I'd be dressed in a dressy/casual outfit, most likely my blazer with jeans, t-shirt, and sandals. We'd get a bite to eat at a small restaurant , or if the weather is good a picnic on the beach may be in order. After we eat we would go for a stroll on the beach and watch the sunset at the most scenic spot we can find.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
We would talk about our lives so far, and what our goals are for the future. You'd know my likes/dislikes, my views on love and life. The things that make me attracted to certain people over others. Know about my family and friends. About my work. My turn-ons and offs. My fears and desires, and my dreams. You would know enough to know what kind of person I am.