A: Why don't you ask them why they think you're gay? If they answer honestly, it might actually help you to know so you can change your behavior. Do they actually say something to your face in reference to your being gay?Also, it would help to get a girlfriend, as elliegrl93 already suggested. more
A: Anywhere else: class, the library, groups on campus, volunteer events, etc. I think it depends on the girl whether or not she's looking for a long-term thing. There are plenty of either kind on a college campus.
A: I like shy boys, but I'm shy myself, which makes it that much more difficult- someone needs to start up a conversation! Try breaking out of your shell in other ways first. Join a club sport, whatever. Then work on finding a girlfriend. I think you have to be satisfied with yourself before you can... more
A: He sounds like he either can't make up his mind or is just not that into you. I read in Cosmopolitan that if a guy doesn't ask you out/ make a move within the first few encounters he just isn't feeling it. If I were you, I would start dating other guys. Maybe after a while he'll wake up to his... more
A: Maybe you're coming on too strong and they just want to take it slow and keep things light.Are you really set on finding a girlfriend at the moment? If so, you might be coming off as desperate, which is why you're scaring them away. I have similar problem with men. Maybe you should try spending more... more