A: How far away are we talking? If she lives more than thirty miles away, don't ask her out. It's not worth the trouble. If she lives less than thirty miles away, find something interesting that both of you would like to see or do for the first time and call and ask if she wants to go with you. more
A: If you "definitely still love him and wouldn't trade him for the world," then don't worry if your relationship is starting to show signs of its age. But if you're getting bored with him, you should talk to him about how you feel.