A: In some ways. many guys, including me, love to have a little physical feedback. We don't have that convenient easy measure like you women do with the male erection. A clitoral erection is a bit hard to judge some times. Intravaginal infrared photoplethysmography really does the trick for... more
A: Ah, the hand in the hair, that's so wonderful. Works on guys too. or at least on me. Especially since it's often followed up by her pulling my face to hers for a passionate kiss. Of course I also have a thing for women in glasses and garters. Either really.
A: It's often not really about working up to it, but body design, level of arousal and several other factors. By two soda cans, you mean the diameter of a soda can and the length of two? I had a play partner who was into fisting at one point, and she could fit a 20oz soda bottle in if she was... more
A: My personal though is not too worry about being "approachable". The rules of relationships in our culture are in flux. Women are no longer dependents on men and yet women seem to think they should wait for men to ask them out. That doesn't work so well. Some of the best guys are a bit shy, or... more
A: As a guy. my thought is just ask him what his number is. Too much is lost to worrying about feeling too forward. (I have a little experience on both sides of this.) It's not a big deal to get someone's number in most situations. If you're interested but don't know if you want to commit to... more