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Can Guys And Girls Really Be Just Friends
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So I was always of the belief that guys and girls could be friends. Most of my friends are guys. I find girls to be bitchy and full of shit half the time. They are jealous and spiteful. Most of the guys I am friends with I at least know exactly what they mean when they say something. Even when things get sexual it is almost always just playing and joking. That is until this past weekend.
I had a really bad night at work. I wait tables. We had prom kids in. The first group was very polite and well mannered but the second group was not. I was trying to tell them how the restaurant works and they wouldn't stop talking. So we kind of just let them do their own thing and left them alone. As I was walking out of the room I heard one of the guys yell out "I am already tired of that f**king bitch" and apparently he picked up his steak knife and threw it at the door as I was leaving. The guy I was working with saw him but thankfully he didn't tell me until later.
So after that I decided I need a drink. I changed clothes and paraded around the back of the restaurant because this guy I have been talking to works back there. I wanted him to see how cute I was.
So I left and this guy that I am friends with, only friends. There has never been any kind of flirting between us. I know his girlfriend. We all have hung out before. I heard the two of them talking about meeting each other's family and what they were going to name their kids.
So we went to this little bar around the corner from work. We drank some drinks and talked about the little punk from prom, and work and the guy in the back that I have a thing for and just stuff friends talk about.
So we left the bar at around 12:45 and went to his apartment. He lives with another guy that we work with so I figured he would be there and we would all sit around and blow off some steam. Well the other guy ended up not being there. So the two of us sat at the table and drank a couple of beers and continued our conversation. His roommate showed up at around 2:30 and went to bed pretty quickly.
So at around 4 am I decided I should really head home. I live a about 35 miles from where we work so it takes me a while to get home. At that point, my friend, grabs me and starts kissing me. I didn't kiss him back. I pushed him away. He grabbed me and pulled me into his bedroom. He pushed me up against the wall and started trying to kiss me again. I kept saying no, no, please. We can't do this. I really just want to get out of there. I was hoping this was all alcohol induced and if I could get out of the place, it would be just an embarrassing story of drunken debauchery. He pulled a condom out of his dresser. I still tried to be nice but this time I grabbed my purse and ran out the door to my car. He followed me to my car where he again tried to grope me. He tried to put his hand under my skirt and my shirt. I pushed him out of my car and left. I got home a little after 5. That is when the phone calls started. He called me 5 times in 5 minutes. I didn't answer. I sent him a text finally saying, I was getting in bed, we could talk later when we were both sober.
He started texting me "call me." "I really want to talk to you", " Please just call". So finally I decided to call just so he would stop and I could get some much needed sleep. He took this as an opportunity to start talking dirty to me over the phone. So I hung up. I haven't answered any of his calls since then. I have been off the past two days. I am not looking forward to having to see him tomorrow at work. I only told two people what happened. One does not work there any more and the other is a good friend that won't say anything unless I tell her it is ok.
I save all the texts he sent and the records of him calling. I really hope he doesn't make me use them. I just want to forget about this. Nothing happened, luckily. I have nothing to be ashamed of but I am afraid that he might tell people that something happened that didn't or that I was the aggressor in this situation.
I was not interested in him in anyway. He is too short, he is not my type at all. He has a girlfriend and is way to old for me. Well actually he is only 4 years older than me but I am attracted to younger guys.
So now comes the fun part. Having to see him again and either pretend like nothing happened or put up with his advances again or have to defuse any of his bs at work.
Oh the joy of guys and girls being friends.
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