A: It's not that you are tense, it's just that you are nervous about doing somthing wrong or not being good at the things you know how to do it's your first time and it's going to be scary and you are not supposed to know what you are doing. Just make sure the guy knows you are a virgin and that you... more
A: NO YOU DIDN'T RUIN YOUR CHANCES WITH HIM. JUST TALK TO HIM LIKE YOU DON'T KNOW HE KNOWS AND SEE IF HE LIKES YOU ASK HIM IF YOU CAN'T TELL WITH THE SIGNALS.
A: Maybe he really doesn't have a problem with it maybe it's a good thing. Maybe he wants to know what it feels like when you give him head (if you do that kinda thing).