A: The downside of the male drive to go meet girls is that it can turn into stalkerish behavior. If you responded that you think he's texting you too much and to lighten up or forget you, it'll be a better and more respectful signal than silence. Guys hate silence because they're not mind-readers. As... more
A: She's found she can control you. She likes it and has nothing better going on right now. Sooner or later she'll get tired of dangling you like a toy and find a boyfriend. Then you'll be the emasculated "safe" guy friend who she still doesn't think of that way. Stop returning her texts the minute she... more
A: You're responsible, because you haven't defined your personal and masculine boundaries of what's acceptable and as a result you don't have her respect. It takes two people to make one feel degraded, and you're one of them. If this is the first time, it's up to you to make sure she understands it's... more