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The Unlucky 13 - 13 Warning Signs Your Boyfriend Is Going To Leave You
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Have you ever got the feeling that your boyfriend was going to dump you, but you weren't 100% sure? Or have you ever thought everything was going smoothly and then all of a sudden he dumps you and you would of never saw it coming? So all you need to do is pay attention to how he acts and what he says, and you will be able to tell if your relationship is on the rocks.
Is it romantic Armageddon, or just uncomfortable shoes? Body language tells you a lot; where the toes point, the heart follows. So next time your out with other people, look at your boyfriend's feet, if they are pointed at you great, if they are pointed at someone else your boyfriend may be looking to walk.
Are you starting to feel like a telemarketer? Is your boyfriend anxious to end phone conversations right away? A person who knows he's going to end the relationship with you, but hasn't done so yet will be itching to get off the phone with you. If he is talking to you, but not adding anything to the conversation it's sign he is heading towards the finish line. He's probably just pacing himself.
Is he no longer interested in sex? A dramatic change in sexual behavior could mean two things: He wants to avoid any situation where he might have to express emotion or attachment to you, or He's getting it somewhere else
Does he avoid talking about the future? I'm not just talking the general, garden-variety aversion that men have to discussing relationships. I'm talking about a man who avoids having one of those "we have to talk" talks like it's a shot of the Plague. As for the future, when next Thursday seems like too much of a commitment, it could be because he's trying to extricate himself by Wednesday night.
Is he saying the dreadful words of "I need some space." or "I think we should see other people."? People don't usually want to hurt someone else, so they use "exit strategies." By telling you he wants to see other people, he's not technically breaking up with you (so no big crying scene to endure) but he's given himself a way out. Of course, the second he gets a little distance, he's going to make a run for it.
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Is he looking to the left? Somethings not right. A person who looks up into the air and to the left when he speaks to you is "not being truthful". The look left is an indication we're using the "creative" side of our brains and a good indicator he's telling you a lie.
Does he give you a little pat on the back? Watch out for this one. A person who gives you a hug while patting you on the back is indicating that they are uneasy. The "hand pat" on the back indicates someone is uncomfortable with what they're doing. The bigger the pat, the more discomfort they feel.
Do you like what you see in the mirror? People mirror each other's body language when they are in love with similar gestures, voice volume, etc. If you're noticing the two of you are out of sync, you probably are.
Is the writing on the wall? A person who is thinking of ending a relationship will show clues in his handwriting. When writing the word "love" he may begin to drop down the letter "e" or change the "o" to a "u". Another sign to watch for is if your partner diminishes the size of your name (sign of your importance to him).
Is he picking silly fights with you? I mean EVERYONE knows which way the toilet paper goes. A person who picks nonsensical arguments is trying to get you to make the first move. So if he's picking silly fights, or there's an unusual increase in emotional distance, you've got bad news.
Does he keep you waiting? Personally i hate when guys do this. If he keeps you waiting, it's a sign his interest is waning, and a sign of disrespect. This is true for dates as well. If he starts waiting until the very last minute to make date plans with you, it's likely he's lost interest, or he's hoping something better will come along and he's using you as a back-up.
Did he go out and buy a pager? This is bad news. The pager purchase is a sign of impending heartbreak. Sure, it could be for work, but more likely, he's using it to get a head start on his post-you life. Beep Beep - Bye Bye.
Did your sweatpants and a t-shirt kind of guy all of a sudden became obsessed with Armani? A person who is about to leave (or is cheating) will take greater care with his appearance by updating his wardrobe, losing weight, working out and even changing cologne.
Want to know when you're most likely to get the axe? Usually, its in the neighborhood of 3-5 months. So either you notice these warning signs and dump his ass first, or stock up on tissues and Ben & Jerry's because you're heading into the danger zone.
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