A: Well in most relationships it's BIG deal. But it shouldn't be. A lot of people just make it seem like it is. But if it means that much to you then maybe you should tell her to teach you how she wants to be kissed
A: I used to be like that. I read in the book that you should try exercising the muscles of your vagina. Tighten them over and over like you're trying to stop yourself from peeing. It worked for me!! Maybe it will work for you.