I sell books and make and sell custom survival gear, packs, tents, you name it. I enjoy the whole outdoors thing. I'm a huge movie buff. I have a hundred other random hobbies and interests.
Most of what I know about girls was the result of an atypical relationship back in college I had with a good friend that was a girl. For almost 3 years we helped each other meet people at parties, bars, clubs, etc.
The best wingman is , in fact, a girl. Our agreement was that at the end of the night if we both didn't help the other hook up that we would go home together. In that way we also never had any fear of being rejected since we had a sure thing. We pointed the right people out, gave each other openers, advice on how to talk, understanding of the opposite sex, had sex, etc. I was probably rejected at least a few hundred times, but in the end those rejections and her advice taught me so much.
I don't claim to know it all (no man ever will) but her and a handful of her friends gave me an honest look into the mind of women that was at times scary, but absolutely fascinating and informative. My guy friends have insisted a hundred times I write about it but we'll see.
In the meantime, I met a wonderful woman that I married and we have a really strong relationship. My friend also found and married the guy she had always been looking for. The end result of each of us dating too many people to count and an experience I wouldn't ever trade.
A: From a science view, I think us, as in homo-sapien type humans, never will. Maybe if we evolve. I don't think our minds are complex enough to understand an absolute truth. We haven't even sorted out the details of our world and bodies yet. With increasingly difficult disciplines of science and... more
A: Its cool if its not too strong. If a girl were to just jump on me or was all over me I would get a little freaked out and start wondering what kind of girl I was with and how often she does that. But holding hands, kissing is fine. And if you have spent enough time together being pretty normal,... more
A: Thats just disrespectful and you should tell him so. He may be the kind of guy that just pushes to see how far he can go and walk all over you. If you allow it, you may as well be condoning it. If you can't make him see why this isn't right, maybe you need to rethink what you are doing in this... more
A: Give her some space and don't seem too eager/desperate. Just slowly move into a mindset of not caring so much. When she stops getting the attention she might start missing it and thinking about you. Then she might initiate things. And if not. You have your answer. Just keep your dignity and don't... more