40 years old and from Batavia, Ohio, United States
I am 40 and have seen and done many things but still have soooo much to learn! I have been married for 14 miserable years and have two sons. I have a Bachelor's and am working on an Associates degree. Feel free to ask me anything!
A: Is it possible to arrange an after work group outing that you could invite him to? Maybe he might open up and feel more comfortable away from work? Or you could just ask him.
A: Just go out with him, even if its just as friends. Spend some more time with him. alone and see what happens. He may be a little shy and waiting for confirmation from you that you are into him, too. Even if he just wants to be friends, you still win, right?
A: "He is very religious and also cares very much what people think." Think about that statement for a moment and see if you can figure out where this will probably end up.
A: Putting aside any comments on morality and integrity (since the 18-24 crowd seems to have that handled.) My questions to you are 1) Why so many details? Something isn't right there. and 2) You posted a similar question 7 months prior to this one, with most of the same information. Why?
A: Sounds like a friends with benefits scenario to me. What do you want out of the relationship? If you're cool with that route, go for it. If not, then ease out of the relationship slowly. Good Luck!