A: I guess she is waiting for you to ask her out again, Do so. I think she is almost done thinking:p GOOD LUCK ps: shyness ends up NO WHERE. CHANGE for your own sake.
A: I haven't experienced such thing but in my personal opinion you should be supportive to her for a few months, I mean more supportive than normal times so that she gets over it . If she tells you she loves you then she does . She just needs time and support . Give her what she wants and it'll be... more