A: Okay by being yourself & hanging with the guys, they see you as just a buddy. not girlfriend material. you didn't totally screw yourself, you should just kinda like. start being girly & see if they like it. & black and fishnetting is NOT nerdy. most people call it goth/scene/emo. lol.
A: You didn't have to take it away you could have just talked to your boyfriend about it and if he didn't do what you asked [you had to have included a good reason. one that he would buy.] than it would be the time to take it away.
A: Uhm this day in age, people don't like that crap. get rid of it. thats gross. like. I dunno. if you were a good guy, id stay with you. no reason to break up though, unless the girl is like shallow as crappp. :]