A: He was more gung ho about picking up a sack then spending a romantic night without bud. His last dollars went to weed rather then taking me out. It only gets in the way if it comes before your gf.
A: I think that if you're flashy you would get my attention either by your clothing, walk in with a big group of people, or if you're buying rounds at the bar.
A: No quite the opp. I like shy guys they tend to be way sweeter and easier to get along with. But if your too shy then it might have it's disadvantages.