A: If you loved him to death, then something so small as "vanity" shouldn't even be in the question. To me, if you loved him to death, then something so meaningless and vein shouldn't even be a thought. Look past it. If you cant, then maybe you don't love him like you thought you did. Thats just my... more
A: I don't think you should push your personal decisions onto her. If she wants to drink, that's her right. If its out of hand drinking that's 1 thing, but as you make it sound, that's not the case. Sounds like your trying to control her and make her conform to what You feel is what You want. If its... more
A: Pick a guy and stop leading them on. if it doesn't work out, take a break and see if the other guy is still available. in no way try to date them both. thats just asking to b made look like a whore. make a decision, but when u do, stick to it. tell the other 1 that u are absolutely not... more
A: It's 1 of those "whatever floats your boat" type answers. a lot of men do very well care what u look like, but some can't or don't think they'll get any better so they settle.or for bigger girls, if they are good looking but overweight, sum will still date u thinking they can get u to go on a diet... more
A: Thats 1 of the chances in life you take going somewhere half naked (given a bathing suit, but still showing a lot of skin) with both sexes. either go to a single sex pool or ladies' swimming night or put up with it. you choose to go there knowing full well what will happen. don't blame it on them.