Well, I'm a 3D animator from the most beautiful city in the world, Cape Town, South Africa. I am addicted to FanFiction in Naruto and Harry Potter, much to my bosses' displeasure. I am also a movie addict, and love few things more than watching a good movie with friends. I love talking about relationships as well as books.
I suppose by what this website seems to be all about, I should also say what type of girl can get my attention (I do understand that this ISN'T a dating site, and that's not what I meant)... Hmm... I suppose my ideal girl would have to value commitment, and really love me for me. I'm generally the silent type that only opens his mouth when there is something important to be said, so a girl that can end all the awkward silences would be great. Looks are obviously a plus, but that's not important. I'm around beautiful girls all day every day and I really value getting to know someone before taking the plunge into a relationship. She must have a sense of humour like me, and enjoy having fun (dunno anyone who doesn't, so... erm... yeah.) I don't want to have sex before I get married. Erm... okay, perhaps I do, but I don't believe in it and I have very specific reasons for that, so I won't.
Okay, I know that that doesn't seem important, but these things about me will colour my answers. NJOY!!!
In any way whatsoever. How do you deal with that? Do you find it easy to forgive? Or do you forgive? Can you move on, or will you avoid the person forever? How did you get over it to get on with life? more
I've seen it too many times. Why do they do it? Do they not realize that the guy will do it again? What should I do to protect my friends? I don't have any romantic interest in them. more
A few years back I was staying with a family for about a month, but unfortunately one of the girls developed a crush on me . I was twenty at the time, and she was fourteen . I hadn't done anything to... more
It's a comforting gesture. It's to let you know that he's still got you and cares, and for him it also reassures him that you're still there. It chases away any minor loneliness and also just makes you feel good.
For me it's a combination of shyness and my fear of being hurt by those I've trusted again. Shyness just makes me clam up and not want anyone to see what's going on with my feelings. My fear stops me because I've been hurt badly by those I've thought I could trust after I shared my feelings with... more
I can't answer from the perspective of a girl talking about her boyfriend, but I can say that a guy can be 'too nice' as you put it. He can be like that, where he doesn't have an opinion. It isn't good as it can cause a problem down the line where he doesn't like a decision that's been made but it... more
Ooh, that would be incredibly awkward. I don't even think that I'd like to sit near anyone whether I knew them or not when they're making out in the movie theatre. As far as lovebird01 says, sometimes you can't always predict some things because you don't always know the circumstances. I was the... more
From what you've described here, you actually sound pretty amazing. Yes, it is a personality trait to act the way you do. Don't worry - it's pretty normal. Don't change the way you are just because you think it's what others like. Sure, listen to advice, but don't throw your own mind and personality... more