A: I sure do to the fullest. Of course if you are in the mood and foreplays always change your mood. The number one thing you always have to remember is that we want to reach an orgasm. Don't just think about yourself and that's what makes a great lover.
A: While you are watching porn, are they turning you on? I saw one once and for me, you get to learn a lot of things. I don't really think it makes a you a lesbian. It just is curiosity or your inner fantasy.
A: I have been there before. You can flirt but always with a limit. A little flirting doesn't hurt. It just makes things more interesting. Just learn how to balance both.