A: Appearance doesn't matter that much yeah girls like buff guys but there are some that dont. A good personality will go all long way. trust me. been there done that. Don't worry you will soon find someone who likes you for you. And remember "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
A: Basically you just have to act like your not interested and then he will want to cum back for more like for example wait like 5 minutes b4 you answer his text you get what I mean? But don't go too far otherwise the guy will give up!