A: Hun it's not crazy at all. But by wanting to remain friends with him:1. You may jeopardize your current relationship; esp if the guy atm loves you, he is very very likely to get jealous at your ex-bf very soon, even if he doesn't show it. It's a male thing.2. It means you still have feelings for... more
A: Seriously, this girls needs to know who she wants.Tell her with all seriousness that you love her - but you don't want to be with someone who has got a foot in both sides.You love her heaps, but do you trust her judgement? - she's had a horrible past and that she needs to learn to face it, accept... more
A: First of all, I think you are a great potential to be a perfect bf/partner because you have been determined to pull yourself together, find out what you want and taken the girl seriously.However, without knowing what she wrote in the email stating the list of what she thinks is wrong with the... more
A: It looks like you really have determination and love for this relationship!From her behaviour it seems like she's unsure of who she is, what she wants and her identity in general. Wanting to be friends for now means she's still in her "judging" phase - and considering the previous break ups, this... more
A: From the surface it looks like it is the proposal that has "scared" her off a little bit (even though she said yes) and now she's anxious because she doesn't know what she's gotten herself into.Judging from your age - 18-24, some people may still indeed be searching for themselves and their... more