A: Um well no actually that would have the opposite effect. Water washes away the natural lube your body produces therefore causing more friction on the condom and increasing the chance of it breaking.don't let him do that.he may think it will help but it actually doesn't at all.
A: Jeez how old are you? Yes its called fingering. And no if you broke your hymen you would be bleeding all over the place so your good on that note. That usually happens after the first or a few times after the first times you have sex. Basically he must have just made you sore. Since your not used to... more