Original Californian (LA & SF), living & working in Germany for 3 years now. NO, not in the army, I'm a video game programmer. Also a goth, and weird in a few amusing other ways.
A: I think it's obvious already that he loves you, but isn't comfortable enough to say it. The more relevant question is: is that enough to keep him committed to you? Seems like it isn't. Yet. You can either put up with his constant "running", since he isn't ready to stop yet. Or you can do something... more
A: First comment is: what's the problem? :) Seems like it's usually a good thing. Sometimes I'm the same way, and I actually don't mind not coming, if the girl gets tired. As long as we've both had fun for a good long time, seems like a successful experience. But yeah, coming is great too, and maybe... more
A: OK, I answered this on your previous question. Sorry, new here. But. You're partially right, people can work out a lot through compromise and learning. Particularly if they're in a committed marriage, and staying together is more important than absolute compatibility. But any 2 people will start out... more
A: Me again, in response to your comment. Re: compatibility. Annwyl, you probably know a bit about sex, even if you're a virgin. People like different things. Some like it hard, some soft. Passionate or gentle, and very different physical things too. Of course, some of that can be learned, and you'll... more