A: Oh Gawd. What a question.The answer varies, of course, depending on if I'm giving, taking or sharing. Mostly what I want out of a sexual encounter is proof through enthusiasm that my partner wants to be there, doing that, with ME. The psychological attraction of being wanted outweighs by a long... more
A: Short distance. Cheaper gas.No.seriously, long distance relationships suck, unless you like to do one-handed typing, and that sucks too.Cross town is better. Down the hall better yet and close-enough-to-touch is best of all.If someone prefers long distance, they probably don't want to be caught... more
A: Guys will chase whatever appears healthy. Beauty is health. Health signals reproductive fitness. this is a subject of a simple but long drawn out conversation, but it basically boils down to basic biology and the lizard part of your brain understands what I just said. Why do you have crushes? For... more
A: Rule #1 with us guys. : Biologically, we'll mate with anything that's female and healthy. All our lives. Rule #2 No matter how "harmless" we may come across, how sincere, how everything else, re-read Rule #1. Culture and all that entails reinforces the better angles of our natures, but basically,... more
A: Perhaps he thinks it's somehow coercive, which is a real turnoff. I am turned on by an enthusiastic lover, not a submissive one. Perhaps deep down, he thinks asking or accepting a blow job is somehow asking a woman to do something she'd rather not do.If you want to go down on him because YOU want... more