A: It's not how many guys but in what context the amount of guys she's slept with is. If it's 5 guys, but each guy was in what seemed to be a committed relationship and it took a while before she slept with them then not slutty. However if she hooked up with them randomly and quickly then more slutty.
A: I'm very similar and I will tell a woman I love her, and I do. I trust her entirely, but certain things I won't open up about. As time goes on and he gets older as I have, he will start to open up about things. In time it'll happen, but just don't get upset if he's unwilling to open up to you. Some... more