A: Well He's not ready for a relationship/. usually when a guy says that, he likes someone else. but I would recommend looking for someone who knows they're ready and know what they want. =]
A: Seriously, if he did this to you, then forget him. you deserve so much better. you need someone who is going to be the same person with you as he would be in school. Don't need a 2 face.
A: You are absolutely right, but. date someone in your age group. would be a better experience and you wouldn't have to put up with immaturity and stuff like that.
A: I would say no. Find someone who lives in your home state. It would be stupid of you to be his girlfriend and then he'd turn out to be some old geezer. you never know.