A: Dating someone older is fine. UNLESS they're ready to "settle down" - with you! - and you're not, because you're younger and you still need to make a life for yourself before that kind of commitment.
A: Vezna beat me to it. Yeah: sex!What turns us (umm, me) on the most is seeing how turned on the girl is. And she's turned on when she's into it. And she's into it when she's not thinking about anything else - including "what do men like in bed." So just don't look at this as a problem anymore, and it... more
A: Why would you settle for decent? Go for extraordinary, you deserve it. Don't you? If you don't, why not? The real answer, then, is: work on and improve yourself! And then the great guys will come pouring in.
A: My friend, yours is the classical case of an attempted and failed "ladder-jump. " I suggest you Google "ladder theory" right now, then read up on it and within half an hour you'll be wise as to why you can never (or very seldom) turn a girl-who-is-a-friend into a girlfriend.
A: Ladies, the one sure way to get your man to cheat on you is to be jealous and possessive. The more freedom a man has, the less he will make use of it. I can understand your feelings, but feelings generally do not dictate good judgment. What you should do is try to appear as nonchalant as possible... more