A: Reassure her that you're not...Tell her how YOU know you're not (the reasons). If she keeps saying it over and over, maybe she's the one falling out of the relationship.
A: If he's grabbing for your hand or doing other "boyfriendly" things in public, he already knows he's your man...Or, at least, hopes he is. Guys, no matter who they are, often seem to be distant and cool about the whole matter. That's the rub. It makes you feel like you HAVE to ask. Watch what he does... more