Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner, drinks and lots of good conversation. We'd talk about our sexuality and what we're looking for. What we've enjoyed and what we want to try. If all goes well we'd go back to her place and experiment.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I'm honest, sincere, not going to lie to get her into bed, or lie to keep her out of it.