If a girl has strong feelings for a guy, how come she still doesn't like to get to close and pushes him away? while although there are a few reasons, what is the most likely reason?
IF she has feelings for a dude, why does she run away?
im doing that to a guy right now actually... me and this guy have loved each other for over 2 years and never had a relationship and I'm pushing him away for several reasons: I'm scared to not have him in my life if things end badly. I KNOW he's no good for me and I want him but I won't let myself have him. I'm not sure if ill be able to fully trust him. this guy hardly ever calls or texts me so what makes me think he cares aboutme? HONESTLY... although she's pushing you away what she REALLY wants is for you to chase after her. if you know she REALLY cares about you, no matter how weird it gets she wants you to keep trying to keep that connection with her and its kind of corney to say but she wants you to be her knight in shining armor. she wants you to break boundries and take risks to stay close to her. so go after her. I hope this helps.
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yes if she has been hurt in the past or has been treated wrongly by a bloke before she won't drop that barrier and let you in in till she is ready to take that risk again hope this helps :)
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Maybe she's never been through this kind of experience and is scared because she doesn't know what to do or how to approach it. Which means you'll probably have to make the first move.
It is funny some females suggesting you should pursue: when you chase, you become a creep and stalker; when you don't, you become a jerk and jackass!
why does a girl do this if she likes you? It is absolutely stupid! Why do you want to be in a relationship with such a girl?
I think you (or anyone in this situation) should move on to another girl (I know it is hard); if she changes her mind, she has your number and can reach out. This keeps you out of a shit load of trouble.
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Maybe its her oblique way of showing that she likes the guy (she's shyer around him than other people).
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I have been chasing a girl for a year and a half. She just keeps running. I have already proved and showed her, I’m not like the guys in the past. Everything is good when we are good.. but first time she hears something she don’t like… she runs away. I love her… I do… but I’m done chasing. You gotta know when to hold ‘em and when to fold em. I feel… if she truly loves you… you shouldn’t be playing games. Wasting time. No need to say sorry later when you should have learned the first few times. Time to move on.
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more than like, she's been hurt in the past. and to aviod being hurt again, she's pushing you away. try to prove to her your not like other guys and that she's worth your time.
hope everything works out. :) - 320 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
i'm in a similar situation myself...
reasons could be that she was hurt before, scared of this new feeling she has for you [ then going into a relationship ]... -
It could be that she has a fear of commitment,
hurt in the past,
not completely sure of her feelings,
not completely sure of his feelings
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she is waiting for him to make a direct step towards her.
and I'm one of the girls who do the same as the girl you are talking about, somehow, JUST because I want the first move to be his. -
Could be she's scared, been hurt before, etc.
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she's probably scared =]
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MAYBE, she actually doesn't like the guy?
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