This is what it's like to be an aesthetic (attractive) male and how women's hypocrisy of personality being important shows

[Anonymous]

New guy in class. He's 5'10"ish, lean and athletic, clean cut, white, facially aesthetic, well-dressed, plays sports, socially normal and goes out often, educated, lots of friends, well-traveled, wealthy family, has a nice apartment, etc. Generally attractive dude in every way (no homo). His goal is to get mediocre grades and just smash as many girls as possible.

I know other aesthetic dudes, but they don't care much for getting laid, so I was curious to see how this guy pulls. He heard I slay some chicks so we started hanging out together.

The dude's facebook pic:

Within 7 days of being here, had hundreds (had 121 unread notifications in one day alone) of tinder matches/messages.

Slayed 4 girls (had a 3way with 2) who were 8/10's+ with ease and turned down several others. Girls in our school who he doesn't even know added him randomly on FB and keep sending him thirsty messages.

Two girls approached him outside the bar and gave him their numbers. This one chick was boasting about her boyfriend at the beginning of the year, then messaged him on FB asking if she can come over for a drink on the down-low. Even the quiet girls in class who don't talk much and are very private would hit him up.

mind = blown

I'm pretty much the opposite and have to spit hard game to get the same quality of girls maybe once every several months at best.

These girls are always turning down dudes, playing the innocent card, acting all shy, quiet, and coy and expect men to do everything, acting all committed and loyal to their boyfriends, but when an aesthetic dude walks in, they pounce.

One of our friends is a virgin at 26 and he's like "how can you be a virgin? so easy to get laid here". lol. our friend is a 5'4" 110 lb Asian guy.

I know this is nothing new and that aesthetic guys have it easier, but I never knew it was THIS much easier. These guys get more attention than women.

Not jelly. Not mad. Guy's a great wingman and introduces me to these chicks friends who I'm going to try and smash too. Also have a couple HBB's who are wingwomen.

So the point of myTake: Women playing coy, saying personality matters, or acting all shy and innocent is ALL BS Games constructed if they think your not attractive enough. Make the most of the cards you're dealt and always improve to be as attractive as possible.

IF A GIRL ACTS LIKE A PRUDE/BITCHY/INNOCENT. JUST REMEMBER THAT IF PRETTY BOY WALKED INTO THE ROOM SHE WOULD BE ON HER KNEES SUCKING HIM OFF WITHIN 24 HRS.

Don't be used by women and always give them minimal amount of resources/time unless they prove otherwise that they are really into you/worth it.

[Hannah591]

You described "thirsty girls" and basically easy girls. Yes he's attractive and I'd probably swipe right, but that's about it. I wouldn't send thirsty messages and his personality would matter for a relationship. I much prefer relationships so I wouldn't hand myself to him on a silver plate but ironically, that would likely attract him more because I wouldn't be acting like the others.
You just sound bitter or just jealous of your friend and almost a hater of women. You honestly think all girls are bitchy lying whores? If so, then you're not worth anyone's time here. And you know what you've written won't be agreed with fully because you went anonymous.
I've swiped left on guys like him though because they look so arrogant, you know they'd love and respect themselves more than they ever will you. I don't want to be with a guy who can't stop thinking about himself and no-one else.

[burpzzzzz]

"You honestly think all girls are bitchy lying whores?"
Clearly you have no idea about North American women. They are nightmare. A lot of women are bitchy in North America and most are whores and that's not an understand. From what I know UK is a lot easier and friendlier to date.
Black and white men are going to Asia, Brazil and other countries to date women and even married them. Stating facts isn't women hating when most of society believes men oppressed men which is far from the truth.
Any decent person wouldn't use tinder it's a hookup site and most people on dating sites are ghosting.

[FaithandTrue]

Well clearly he’s worth your attention that’s why you replyed... 😅

[FaithandTrue]

Hannah591

[AleDeEurope]

So you created a fake Take just because?
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This Take is pathetic from start to finish.

[myTake Owner]

Because it's such a stretch this dude is not on BB. com?

[AleDeEurope]

C'mon dude, you've been busted, don't try to excuse how pathetic this is.

[Bards]

Lmfaoooo

[Rainie_]

Depends actually. Looks is what pulls the girl to the guy (and vice versa). I have met many good looking guys, and I love looking at them, its eye candy. And just like candy, its sweet, its addicting and pleasant to the taste (in the eyes and sometimes the touch in this case). And of course you'd rather want to eat candy than vegetables, its TASTIER. Now, some people really don't give two shits about the ingredients (even if they are bad), but some people do. You know when you pick up a piece of candy and you think hmm this tastes nice, and then you read the ingredients are you're like "eurgh no okay I should stop eating this." THAT has happened to me so many times with good looking guys. I have a taste of it, but then when I get to know their personality (and its bad) I just get so turned off, no matter how good looking they are, in the back of my head I get like these reminders such as "he's so fucking arrogant", "he's a fuckboy.", "he's such a fucking liar". Ones personality can indeed make someone ugly, trust me, I've rejected and stopped associating with some good looking guys because of it, and in my head I just think, "god, such a waste of good looks..." 😒

However, there are a lot, and I mean A LOT of shallow girls who ignore the ingredients, they ignore the red flags. And they get so blinded by the looks, that they don't realise or even care about what a dick they may be (if they are). #1 Girls like to brag about having a good looking guys, to make other girls jealous. Makes them feel good. #2 It is be hell of a turn on to look at a guy with a nice body and face.
But that doesn't mean all girls are like that. Sure I have turned down guys because I didn't find them sexually attractive to me, even though I loved their personality. And have also turned down guys who are extremely sexually attractive to me but their personality were so shit that I just couldn't deal. For me there has to be some kind of balance.

[Bysshe]

So would you eat candy as a treat?

[GirlScout]

"IF A GIRL ACTS LIKE A PRUDE/BITCHY/INNOCENT. JUST REMEMBER THAT IF PRETTY BOY WALKED INTO THE ROOM SHE WOULD BE ON HER KNEES SUCKING HIM OFF WITHIN 24 HRS."

Because we are all just the same person? Yes, of course. One rule for everyone. We have a hive brain and are incapable of having different personalities.

How do you think this is actually logical? So women approach a hot guy and don't approach you... guess what... you aren't that hot then! Some women will approach a guy some won't. Unless these are the exact same women and you have proof that they were attracted to the man they didn't approach then your entire rant is absolute bullshit.

[Girly1710]

You must have weird people at your school because I know tons of girls that would never talk to a guy like that. He sounds gross and probably diseased. It doesn't matter how "aesthetic" his face is, (which I've never heard anyone call a person aesthetic so much in my life) if his junk is nasty af. I have zero interest in guys that are just trying to get laid all the time. And I know my friends don't like that either. Fortunately, those guys would never go for me anyways so we're all on the same page.

[Bandit74]

I think this is exagerated but there is some truth. Girls often do have higher standards in regards to physical appearance for the guys they hook up with and are more forgiving on looks when looking for a relationship. So in a way it's harder to meet a girls standards for casual sex than it is to meet their standards for a relationship.

It's also common for girls to sleep with attractive guys who aren't really relationship material right away and then play hard to get and take things slow with the guys they do want a relationship with.

I've seen many girls on this site admit to doing this. Having sex right away with hot guys they met on tinder but then letting the more average looking guys take them on dates and wait a while for sex.

[lanternhill]

You know who's way more attractive? Jon Stewart. He may be like 55 but he's brilliant and funny and doesn't seem like an ass. And yes he's hot - and much of that is his personality. I kind of assume he doesn't sit around snapping selfies by the way.

I don't go after super hot guys if I get a self-absorbed vibe from them. Sometimes I give them more of a chance but I usually get a pretty good idea fairly quickly. A guy can go from hot to meh pretty fast if he seems like a jerk (like he physically becomes less appealing to me). And I'm really not interested in guys who just want me for my body. It's flattering to an extent but if they want me they'd better want *me*.

Also, what @JuicyBrain said lol

[BigJake]

Being attractive is a relative thing for guys, though. There are tons of women who wouldn't find this guy attractive at all. Frankly, I think he looks like an anime rendering of a white American guy, like some Japanese girl's idea of cute gaijin. I don't look anything like an A&F model, but I still have a wide array of options with women because I have some things going for me like size, confidence, and athletic ability. I went to school with guys like this, but I consistently did better than they did because these cats seemed so damn prissy and self-absorbed, and girls could smell that from a mile away.

Bottom line is, you're lost if you worry over other guys. You're focusing on things that don't matter. Who cares if some dude bangs out a couple of unfaithful sluts? What could it possibly matter to your life?

[Hannah591]

"these cats seemed so damn prissy and self-absorbed, and girls could smell that from a mile away." This is so true but guys seem to ignore this. Decent women do avoid guys like that. They think they're God's gift because they're tanned and muscular and can pull on nights out or get laid, but if they actually wanted to settle down, they'd find it much harder because no girl wants to date a guy who's so self absorbed. Arrogance only goes so far.

[BigJake]

@Hannah591 Honestly, there is a certain type of girl who goes for guys like this, but I personally wouldn't want anything to do with them. We call them 'party girls' where I come from. Most girls with a brain and a sense of self-worth avoid these kinds of guys, though. The big fish won't go near the bait they're casting in the water.

[Hannah591]

I totally agree but the take owner doesn't see it.

[QooLipBite]

"New guy in class. He's 5'10"ish, lean and athletic, clean cut, white, facially aesthetic, well-dressed, plays sports, socially normal and goes out often, educated, lots of friends, well-traveled, wealthy family, has a nice apartment, etc. Generally attractive dude in every way"

Okay... So this description, I have a problem with. What does race have to do with someone being attractive?

You said it like "... Clean cut, white, facially aesthetic..." Like you were describing the perfect gent.

Okay grraayyyyt. 😂

[Mistnigqa808]

Umm, you're just now figuring out that all of those generic BS rules go right out of the window if and when a guy is hot guy walks into a room full of girls? He ain't gotta do nothing... the girls will do it for him (try to fuck him so they can go bragging to their... guys do the same thing) LOL

This take is so called "pathetic" but at the same time going from what I've EXP + seen IRL there's way too much truth to it ^_^

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[Mistnigqa808]

their friends... guys do the same thing*

[Anonymous]

I think the thing you aren't seeing is that yes, an attractive guy can pull a lot of women but he can't pull any woman as you are implying, he can only pull the ones who go for his type. If he's on a college campus that's going to be a lot of women but it's not going to be any woman. He can go to any party and go home with a woman but he can't go to a party and go home whith any woman there he likes. He can only get the suseptible ones.

Also it's him being average in most ways which increases his appeal. Most women have a very good sense of what quality of guy they can attract and they go for the best deal they can get. If a guy is jsut too much he doesn't get hit on as much. the same is true to a lesser extent with guys, they can be intimidated by really extraordinarily attractive girls.

[JuicyBrain]

"I slay some chicks"
You lose all credibility when you say things like this. It's like all you see is vaginas that can walk. Not surprising that you can't fathom that girls don't all see things the same way and are to be seen as individuals.

[Trenbolone123]

In all of my experience it isn't THAT easy no matter how good you look. I used to be a main player in my hometown and would hook up often, but, I would also find myself "taking one for the team" often too with girls and their looks. There is some truth to what you're saying, bro, I just believe pretty damn firmly that there's a threshold and a limit somewhere.

I once attended a large university just for a semester (American U) and the most I got was my ass grabbed by a couple of girls at a party (probably both about an 8), I got cock blocked from fucking this blonde (no better than an 8) at a party when we were about ready to go because we were "too drunk" and had an offer from about a 6 (incel looking cunt) at a bad time while she was drunk. Didn't even get laid. I can understand where you're coming from and have a buddy who genuinely pulls better than I have, but, like I'm saying, in my experience things will only get heated to a degree realistically.

[Stacyzee]

He is attractive but here's the thing , where will this behavior get him in the possible future? With itchy balls and micro crabs walking off of his penis?

Great life for him !

The girls that play the games you mentioned aren't worth ur time anyway.

[PrincessTashaaaa]

I don't think he's very attractive at all. Nice arms, that's about it. I believe I'm an attractive girl, too. Not beautiful or stunning, but datable. I never approach guys, and I'll never even so much as exchange polite conversation with a guy I know to sleep around.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Its to be expected i mean he is very handsome
We must play with the cards we are dealt (like you mentioned), some hands are better, some men most fold, and wait till the next turn

I think younger girls in the USA won't mind, screwing around with a guy like this, but to have a relationship with this guy? most girls wouldn't want him, he is too good looking lol

Also, since he is new, he is more attractive mysterious etc.. everyone likes "new" things

[Anonymous]

It's how it works. I've seen countless threads like this on bodybuilding. com. I remember a thread where a guy made a fake tinder profile of a handsome dude and tested to see what kind of nasty things he say and get away with them.

He would straight up tell the girls like "youre so hot, it makes me wanna rape you :)" and they would play along. Like this dude could say anything and they would laugh. You're gonna get a bunch of girls saying that 'these girls are easy/hoes" but the girls who say this are usually ugly. 95% of the equation is looks, 5% personality. All these girls are full of lies

[Marshmellowking]

Well ii m not hatin but what's your point? Pretty boys get approached and treated better... Isn't that common knowledge? But some women do hold onto their morals and for long term relationships personality does matter. I'm assuming since that guy just wants to have sex the girls will just do that. I personally wouldn't give a fuck what the guys personality is like if its just going to be a one night stand.

[Aeon_Flux_21]

Child you better not be having one night stands. Matter of fact a 15 year old girl should be playing with dolls and baking cookies.

[Marshmellowking]

@Aeon_Flux_21 lol I'm not I'm just giving an example😂

[HowRUbBuddy]

@Aeon_Flux_21 fucking right bro i was about to say just that hahahah glad some people are smart enough to realize that

[jjmarvin]

Does he use words like "slay chicks," "smash pussy," "spit hard game" and "thirsty girls?"

Cuz i see this as your problem

[oddwaffle]

The same thing happens in reverse in case people are wondering. Women wearing high heels (what do the earthlings called it? F-me pumps?) get more help from men on the streets.

In the end, what does it matter anyways? Do you want the girls who banged him for fun? Or do you prefer someone with more brain (and possibly more beauty)?

[Fugue]

It's accurate but I wouldn't get upset over it. This is why I have made my-takes about this topic. I would like for this information to be widely available to young men instead of the lies that are promoted by society. That would lead to a healthier outlook and better choices.

But being negative about it is only going to make you look bad, and give fuel to the people that want to discredit you. Don't attack girls. Be matter-of-fact.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

So in other words hot dudes get laid a lot lol. Of coarse girls jump at these guys. What would most guys do if they had a perfect ten siting nect to them. Exactly what these girls did.

[myTake Owner]

So guys would fuck perfect 10 behind their girlfriend back and then go back to them without saying a word?
Act uninterested to majority of women but messaging perfect 10 on FB?
Shy guys would be messaging perfect 10 on FB Sending dick picks?

The point being not just how easy it is for hot guys to get laid but how women completely abandon all their BS rules and notion of when a hot guy comes into the picture and how minimal they have to do to fuck these chicks. They literally just have to be there and loyalty that your girlfriend has for you goes out the window.

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

I dont know about that. I dont think most girls are that disloyal,